If you’ve started planning your wedding, you’ve probably heard of the term “first look”—but what exactly is it, and should you include one on your big day? At Leah Marie Photography & Videography, we’ve captured hundreds of first looks across Temecula, San Diego, Palm Springs, and Southern California—and we can confidently say it’s one of the most meaningful and photo-friendly moments of the entire day.
Let’s break down what a first look is, why so many couples choose to do it, and how it can completely transform your wedding photography experience.
What Is a First Look?
A first look is a private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony. Typically, it’s just the two of you (plus your photographer and videographer capturing it from a distance) in a quiet, emotional setting.
It’s a modern twist on tradition, but don’t worry—it doesn’t take away from the magic of walking down the aisle. In fact, it often enhances it.
📸 Why We Recommend First Looks for Wedding Photos
As a professional Southern California wedding photographer and videographer, here are the top reasons we love first looks:
1. Genuine, Emotional Reactions
Without an audience watching, couples can react authentically—whether that means tears, laughter, hugs, or quiet awe. These unfiltered moments make for some of the most cherished images of the day.
2. More Time for Portraits
Doing a first look early opens up time before the ceremony for:
- Couple portraits
- Wedding party photos
- Even family photos (if you want)
This means less rush after the ceremony and more time to enjoy your cocktail hour or sunset!
3. Better Lighting
In venues like Temecula wineries or Palm Springs estates, lighting changes fast. A first look allows us to take full advantage of soft afternoon light and ensures we capture beautiful, editorial-style portraits before things get hectic.
4. A Moment to Breathe
Weddings can feel like a whirlwind. A first look gives you a calm, sacred pause in the middle of all the chaos—a moment to connect and remember why you’re here.
5. Stronger Photo & Video Storytelling
From a storytelling perspective, having this intimate sequence adds emotional depth to both your wedding photos and cinematic film. The expressions, the anticipation, the whispered words—it all adds richness to your narrative.
But What If You Want to Stay Traditional?
Totally valid! Some couples prefer to save that moment for the aisle—and we support you 100%. If you’re going that route, we’ll work closely with your planner to optimize your timeline for lighting, portraits, and emotional impact.
Still want something personal? Consider doing a first look with a parent, grandparent, or even your wedding party!
🥂 First Look Locations We Love in Temecula & Beyond
- Olive groves at Falkner Winery
- Hidden garden paths at Leoness Cellars
- The barrel room at Lorimar
- Open vineyard fields at Ponte Winery
- Scenic overlooks at Europa Village
Each of these spots offers privacy, gorgeous light, and a timeless backdrop for your moment.
📍 Your Day, Your Way—But We’re Here to Guide You
At Leah Marie Photography & Videography, our goal is to help you feel seen, celebrated, and completely taken care of—whether you choose a first look or stick with tradition. Either way, we’ll make sure your images and film are overflowing with emotion, elegance, and real connection.
👉 Let’s talk about your timeline and first look options
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